WHEN WE ARE SHAMED FOR BEING "TOO DEEP"...
Are you an intense person who is mainly interested in deep topics?
Have you been shamed for this?
Do you try to make your conversation topics LIGHTER... more APPROPRIATE... more SUPERFICIAL... so that the majority will approve?
Has this been making you feel socially exhausted?
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I see our personalities as lying on a SPECTRUM.
- On the ONE SIDE of the spectrum are people who prefer to talk about LIGHT topics and the details of their day...
- On the OTHER SIDE of the spectrum are people who prefer to talk about DEEP topics and analyse the big picture of things...
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When we are on the EXTREMELY DEEP SIDE of the spectrum, people might give us strange looks when we reveal our preference... when we dive into our DEEEEP nature that lies inside.
This strange look is a BLESSING.
It means that THEY are not compatible with us. :)
These people are too shallow... too light... for us to find THEM interesting over the long-term.
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Close friends tend to lie in THE SAME GENERAL AREA on this personality spectrum.
If you have not yet met other people who are as deep as you, then keep connecting with people until you do.
Once you find them, they will be SO GLAD you did...
They too have been feeling lonely on the deepest end of the personality spectrum. They are waiting for YOU. <3
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Let me know if you'd like me to help you embrace your personality and your strengths... and help you find the connection you desire.
To your deep personality...
And to mine. :)
Marni Penner
A Kanadai Coach :)