WHY THE SOLUTION TO SOCIAL ANXIETY MAKES US MORE PSYCHOLOGICALLY ATTRACTIVE...
When I had crippling social anxiety, all I wanted was to be "normal"...
I never would have imagined that the solution to social anxiety actually makes us MORE psychologically attractive than the average person...
It turned out that the solution to my social anxiety was actually the ideal recipe for connecting with others. <3
Here are the 3 elements of what my solution entailed, and why they also increase our psychological attractiveness. .
1. "HONESTY" enabled me to simplify my head and free myself from shame.
--- People are attracted to us when we fully accept ourselves and others. .
2. "LOVE" enabled me to get out of my head and be truly interested in the other person.
--- People are attracted to us when we are truly interested in them. <3 .
3. "ACCEPTANCE" enabled me to accept my anxious thoughts and symptoms so that I could be present with the other person.
--- People are attracted to us when we are present with them in the moment. .
So, my solution to social anxiety not only enabled me to be calm, confident, and present in the social situation... but to become more psychologically attractive as well. .
People who have social anxiety often have high social and emotional intelligence...
It just backfires on us due to our high sensitivity and shame.
However, we CAN turn this around, and USE these strengths to connect with others... and become EVEN MORE psychologically attractive than we could ever imagine...
Let me know if you would like to find out more about how I can help you overcome your Anxiety or Social Anxiety... and see how psychologically attractive you really are. <3
To your wonderful self...
Marni Penner Anxiety & Social Anxiety Coach
