CIKK: Kiderült, hogy a legrosszabb kritikusom én voltam

Frissítve: 2020. máj 31.

IT TURNED OUT THAT MY WORST CRITIC WAS MYSELF... <3


Since going online, I have had a lot of "firsts"...


My first VULNERABLE post...


My first post that provoked a lot of "UNFRIENDING"...

The first time I got "BLOCKED" by an individual and a group...

My first online "HATER" who tore me to threads... .

Every time I had a "first", I was filled with so many emotions... shame, fear, overwhelm, dread, self-doubt, etc...

At times the emotions would get so strong that I was barely hanging on... trying to keep posting... keep connecting... keep being strong...

When I wanted to curl into a ball and hide... and protect myself from it all... .

Then, I realized that the problem was actually "MY STUFF"... my own shames, fears, insecurities, and self-doubts...

I realized that all the haters, the critics, the blockers and the like... were only triggering me because I was doing the SAME to myself!

I was my OWN worst critic... my OWN worst hater... the person who was tearing myself down to the ground...

So, all I needed to do was work on MY stuff... MY shame, MY insecurities, MY fears, MY self-doubts...

And then I wouldn't give a shit about the haters, the critics, the blockers, and the like...

Because I could handle my very worst critic of all... MYSELF. <3 .

Let me know if you'd like me to help you free yourself from your Social or Performance Anxiety and achieve your life goals.

To your wonderful self...

Marni Penner. A Kanadai Coach :)



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