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Frissítve: 2020. máj 31.

HOW TO HAVE ENDLESS THINGS TO SAY... ❤️


One of the craziest things that I used to believe when I had social anxiety was that I was BORING... and that I didn't have anything interesting to say...


However, as you might have noticed in my posts yesterday containing "ass time" and "butt ugly"... "boring" is not the most appropriate qualifier for me...


I simply hadn't figured out the secret to meaningful conversation... due to being locked in the vicious cycle of social anxiety...

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I then spent a year in Hungary, and I met a friend who turned my life around.


He taught me the secret to having endless meaningful conversations with everyone I met...


The secret lied in these two concepts that I called HONESTY & LOVE:


🔸 *HONESTY* means "sharing what is there". It means SHARING whatever is in your heart or in your mind.


💗 *LOVE* means being truly PRESENT with the other person... and being truly INTERESTED, and CURIOUS about them.


Conversation is a DANCE between these two concepts of Honesty and Love... :)

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So, however boring or uninteresting you believe yourself to be... it is not true.


You may have simply been caught in the negative spiral of "Social Anxiety-Shame-Isolation"... and have not been able to witness yourself shine.


Let me know if you would like to know more about how I can help you overcome your Social Anxiety... and have truly endless things to say. <3


To your wonderful self...


Marni Penner

A Kanadai Coach :)

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