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Frissítve: 2020. máj 31.

MY CLIENT JUST MADE A CLOSE FRIEND IN A WEEK... <3


I swear... Introverts who have overcome social anxiety can become the most social people on the planet.


My client (who used to have crippling social anxiety) met someone on a friend app last week...

They scheduled their first meeting for Sunday...


Before their meeting, my client and I had a coaching session to discuss what perspective to take.


My client decided to be completely honest and just let everything out...


No filters...


No pretending...


No small talk...


No lies...


And now they are writing each other letters as if they had known each other for years. lol


I also developed this ability after I recovered from social anxiety... the ability to make close friends faster than one could blink an eye. :)


After spending years in the prison of social anxiety...


Once the dam is broken...


There is no stopping us...


We become friend-making machines!

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There is no description of "introvert" on the internet that describes "social-anxiety-survivor introverts" at all...


This ability to...


Love people...


Be honest with people...


Connect with people...


And become their friends...

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Social anxiety is the self-protection mechanism we use when we love too much... in a society where people love too little...

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After having recovered from social anxiety...


Yes... I sometimes fell on my face...


Yes... I sometimes overshared to someone who was completely incompatible... and I had a vulnerability hangover the next day... 😂


But, I also developed the ability to make close friend after close friend after close friend...


And you can too...


Just like my client just did.

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To the love underneath social anxiety...


A love that is so great...


So powerful...


So beautiful...


And just what this world needs! <3

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Marni Penner

A Kanadai Coach :)

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